Well, we've arrived. Was it really only three days ago? It's hard to
know where to start, except with the obvious:
We have met the babies! They are delightful. Both of them are swaddled
very tightly, and wrapped in two layers of blankets, so they really
look like a log of fabric with a face. But in each case, it is a very
very cute little face! Baby girl's is very mobile and expressive, and
when she's not happy she pulls the most magnificent
I-can't-believe-you-are-persecuting-me-like-this frown. Baby boy seems
more placid, and spends much of his awake time staring at whoever is
closest and quietly trying to figure out what is going on. They both
have enormous feet (we looked under the swaddling when the nannies
weren't watching). When they are next to each other, the differences
are easy to see, but they do look very similar and we spent all of our
second morning telling a baby that she was a beautiful, beautiful girl
before one of the nannies told us that BG was actually the sleeping
baby and we were talking to BB. I'm sure he will recover.
Both of them are TINY. We knew they would be little, but it was still
a bit of a shock to see how little. We know that they are eating, but
they have a very long way to go before either of them have any baby
fat rolls. We can't wait to get them home and start Project Chubby.
In the meantime, it is strange (and quite difficult) to see the
children who will be ours under someone else's care. Intellectually we
knew this wouldn't be easy, but it is even more difficult than we
expected to put our sleeping babies down in a cot and know that we
won't be there when they wake up. We had hoped to be able to spend
most of each day at the orphanage, and do a large part of the caring
for our babies, but this is less possible than we had originally
hoped, and we are re-adjusting our expectations. Fortunately, the
care they are receiving is good care, and we know that other babies
who have come in quite tiny are now thriving. We keep telling
ourselves this each time we have to say goodbye to them.
We are staying in a guesthouse that is only a few minutes walk from
the orphanage, which is fantastically convenient. It's great to be
close enough to get around on foot - this is an incredibly interesting
place and we are enjoying getting to know it. Today was New Year
(Melkam Addis Anet, everyone!) so yesterday there was a LOT of
livestock being moved around the city in preparation for celebrations-
this not a good time to be a chicken or a goat in Addis.
We are missing everyone, but really glad to be here. More later!
Lots of love
John and Caroline
From Matt and Miriam - So good to hear from you and we are praying for you xxx
ReplyDeleteGreat to hear from you and to know that you have now met your baby twins! (We're still waiting to see a photo...) It must be very hard only being able to visit and not take them 'home' with you each night. We will continue praying with you through the process. Lots of love, Dave, Angela and Josiah
ReplyDeleteHi John and Caroline. Wonderful to hear from you and to follow your experiences. We are praying for you as you adjust to these changes. Kevin says is John still ok to be on the door this Sunday?!!! Laura sends her love, she has just gone to bed so we are settling down with coffee and chocs! Lots of love Susan, Kevin and Laura xx
ReplyDeleteHi John & Caroline, thanks for the update. The twins sound wonderful. We are really praying the Lord will keep you and strengthen you through the waiting and speed the day when you can all come home. Lots of love Mike & Jane xx
ReplyDeleteHi Caroline and John. Great to hear that you have arrived safely and met your beautiful babies. It is so amazing that they start so very small and end up so very big. Loving the blog. Suz, Jeremy, Joel and Euan.
ReplyDeleteProject chubby has just weighted in at 9.2kgs!!
ReplyDeleteShe inpressed the H.V by climbing onto her case and standing up!.
Enjoy the time they are logs with faces..it doesn't last long. Have a brill time and explore Addis. Try the TRinity Cathederal tour..brilliant!
Hi guys,
ReplyDeletealways in our prayers - hope all's well with you 4 - thanks for the updates!
Phil & Hana T xxx